Before beginning, ensure that all distractions are put away. Kids are in bed or being looked after by another adult, and pets are contained.
Weigh out all ingredients in separate bowls, leaving the lye to weigh out last. Make sure you are wearing your protective gear when handling the lye!
Combine oils into a stainless steel pot or bowl and set over low heat.
Working in a well ventilated area, add lye to the water, never the other way around (snow falls on the lake). Mix thoroughly with a stainless steel spoon. You may want to wear a face mask or hold a rag over your mouth and nose to ensure you do not inhale any of the fumes. Once well mixed, set aside the lye solution in a safe space.
Every few minutes gently mix the oils, breaking apart any large chunks until all the oils and fats have melted. The temperature should be close to 120F. At this point the lye solution and oils will be close in temperature. Double check to be sure, as long as the lye and oils are within ten degree's of each other go ahead to the next step.
Slowly pour the lye solution into the oils. You can pour over the handle of the whisk or over a rubber spatula to prevent air bubbles in the soap batter. Whisk continuously for about 1 minute or until the oils and lye solution have fully emulsified and the batter starts to thicken. At this point you can add any essential oils you'll be using.
Gently pour the soap batter into your mold. Wiggle around the mold and gently bang it on the counter or floor to release any air bubbles and smooth out the top. Decorate the top as desired and set aside the mold in a safe place. You can also wrap the mold to trap in the heat while it goes through saponification.
After resting in the mold for about 24 hours, unmold the soap. Using a sharp knife cut into 1 inch wide bars. Each should weigh about 4-5oz. Set aside in a well ventilated area to cure for 4-6 weeks. Turning every couple days to allow the bars to dry evenly.